From a 165/808 perspective:
use b9 as p/steer idle up if needed.
D12 is wastegate control
D8 will be the wideband input.
another option for the a/c relay is moving C2 to A3 (moving it in software would be better though

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please note, I really need to verify these suggestions as I was very tired when I made the preliminary notes....
Edit:
I bought a folder today to organise my notes and went through them. Comparing the 808 to 749,we are missing the 5154, 5153 and 1 4984 ic's.
Things that (should) work as is: TPS, IAT, MAP, CTS, O2, SES (CHK ENG), AC request, park neutral switch, knock sensor.
Things i'm not sure about:
IAC. The controller is the same, but the 808 uses an iacenable pin on the 4993, this is a limp mode pin on 749. this iac pin is used as a MUXA pin on the 749's cpu.
The vss input on the 808 is the same as the 749, but the 749 uses a different circuit normally. Could be a software flag?
ESC pin on 749 is on 5153 expansion ic. this goes to 4988 on 808, on the same pin that the 5153 would connect to on a 749. fault1819 on the 5153 is also a problem, this is used in the injector circuit and connects to main cpu on an 808, pin 3/4/5, ued as MUXC, IIIUCS, GLUCS on 749. otherwise the missing 5153 causes no other problem.
Your TCC (F4out) goes to INJA pin on our ecus. So the TCC pins definitely need to be looked at.
I also know this is all going to be very confusing, its much easier to understand with a copy of both the 808 and 749 schematics + generic wiring for each ecu in hand.